Wednesday, December 29, 2010

Damn

I found out yesterday that one of my cousins had a heart attack and died, she was in her late thirties.

They say it comes in three's, this will be the third funeral since September.

I know we all get to take the dirt nap eventually but it is human nature to deny death and dying.

It is a tragedy and my heart goes out to my aunt, she is such a sweet lady and has already had to deal with the premature death of her husband many years ago, this is going to age her before our very eyes.

I am waiting for word on when the funeral is, I am here at Nasty Girls, she just got out of the hospital yesterday after having a procedure done that was serious enough they put her out for it.

She is fine and doing well.

Like the old saying goes, there's no rest for the wicked.
I must have been Ghengis Kahn in a previous life.

This really isn't about me and I realize that, this Blog is where I turn to when I need to get something out of my system, it's a relief valve. Sometimes I should just keep my mouth shut but in the long run that ain't healthy so fuck it.

I know in my heart that it could be much, much worse so I tend to count my blessings instead of focusing on the negatives.

There is a new year right around the corner and we shall see what it brings, good or bad, if we are lucky.

Thanks fer stopping by.

11 comments:

  1. Late 30's. That's just to damn young for that. Sorry Bro.

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  2. dayam busted, i'm so sorry.

    sending ng healing thoughts and prayers for a speedy recovery

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  3. They say the good die young so I have to wonder why we're hanging around so long.

    I'd focus on the positives if there were any. If it wasn't for bad luck I wouldn't have any luck at all.

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  4. Condolences Bro. It really sucks to see someone so young go before some crusty old douchebag who didn't deserve to live (ala Teddy Kennedy). I hear ya on the "relief valve"...

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  5. As a member of a clan with way too many heart problems I am very sorry to hear about your cousin. Live while you can. Life is too short.

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  6. Anonymous8:37 PM

    We all gonna die on Dec 21 2012 in any fucking way.

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    Josie, The Mayan Proliferator

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  7. Sorry for your loss. I'll keep you in my thoughts and prayers.

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  8. Stoppin by just to wish NG a speedy, full, and permanent recovery n thank you for all you do.

    Way to be there for her . . . just BE there for her till it's over. Cuz that shit counts.

    As you know, I know . . . recently.

    Good on ya hoss, don't ever change.

    Best to you both . . . with wishes from us both. ;-)

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  9. N damn, SO sorry for your loss and your aunt's and family.

    31 is just too early . . . bless her and what she DID have while walking with us on this rock.

    Sigh.

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  10. Fuck man, 30 is too young to go. Sorry for your loss.

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